How did you lose your virginity v. 2009

GoddessLSD-XTC · 26-01-2009, 05:20

1.) In the back seat of a car

2.) Some jerk/fool/dude said he loved me

3.) Rape

4.) Got drunk or date raped

5.) Was in a hurry to join in the fun

6.) I'm still a virgin (please explain why!)

7.) Other, plz explain

Pillthrill · 26-01-2009, 05:28

Well, more 1 and 5 and 7.
Front, driver's seat of a geo metro and go inschool because I was late back from lunch in HS. I was like 16. Stupid tings we do. I don't even LIKE the guy now.

The Is · 26-01-2009, 05:35

This rich arab dude (prince) courted me for like 18 months, all sorts of fabulous gifts. But in the end? on the heated roof of this mountain top retreat he owned during a meteor shower. I never knew you could see the milky way so clearly, so beautifully, without looking at pictues from the hubble telescope. no biggie.

Pander Bear · 26-01-2009, 05:55

shouldn't poll options be mutually exclusive?

Mariposa · 26-01-2009, 05:56

Goddess, there's really no way I can make this one into a poll (there are an infinite number of options!), so I edited the title.

I'll tell my story; I was just a couple weeks from turning 16 and he was almost 18. We met at a debate tournament (lol). We were each other's first and had been dating a few months. Both our dads (we're both only children raised by single dads) were out of town. It was puppy love. We grew apart when I went to school several hours away. We haven't spoken in years, though. Overall we would not have made it as adults.

The sex... well, it hurt and it was boring aside from that. I wasn't lubricated enough, I was distracted... hitting the liquor cabinet didn't put a dent in the anxiety. I bled a little bit, he had fun, it was romantic (candles and stuff)... nothing earth-shattering. It got a lot better once we figured out what we were doing.

Mariposa · 26-01-2009, 05:57

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Originally Posted by Pander Bear

shouldn't poll options be mutually exclusive?

I'm not turning this into a poll... there are too many possible answers.

How about you? How did you lose it?

Rogue Robot · 26-01-2009, 07:16

On the floor in my bedroom while my best friend was sleeping after watching this hilarious porn that had some guy dressed up as a Cream of Wheat box in it (don't ask). I was between 15 and 16, and it was a guy I had a crush on. Nothing ever evolved except more sex, but I wasn't really ever one to cling onto wanting a relationship anyway. The sex didn't hurt, and it wasn't bad, at least not that I recall.

Coolio · 26-01-2009, 07:29

Tag teamed a 40 year old woman with a buddy from jail when I was 18.

Pander Bear · 26-01-2009, 07:34

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mariposa

I'm not turning this into a poll... there are too many possible answers.

How about you? How did you lose it?

eerily similar circumstances: 3 day academic bowl trip to lake forest Illinois. We both got ours because she knew what she was doing, and I was already 5 years into my porn addiction. I was 16, she was 15. We dated until I left for college. She's married now.

SGHteller · 26-01-2009, 08:54

I was 16, she was 18. She'd just started working at the store right by my house and we ended up flirting constantly. It took weeks to talk her into coming to my house after work, but she was going into the Air Force and decided to give me a go. She left shortly after, but that experience convinced me to learn all I could so women would come back for more. lol

~~auto238367~~ · 26-01-2009, 08:56

6. Because being a leet no-sex monk is better than you.

delta_9 · 26-01-2009, 09:00

How? Ummm...with sex

Mr Socks · 26-01-2009, 09:50

i lost my virginity to the one i wish i would've lost it to 4 years ago

, the act only being 5 months ago. She's 17 and Im 19 atm

back then i was still brainwashed by my parents about the views of sex (preachers of absinence

) and was way before i became openminded in general. she was the love of my life back then when we were just simple middleschoolers but yet i was too much of a computer nerd then to see her/our full potential

But now ive opened myself completely, came to the realization that ive been emotionally ignorant, that ive been holding this part of my life back until very recently 2 months before we fell back into each others arms our face warm w/ tears of joy at the very sight of eachother

. Ive been more true to myself in the past couple months then i have ever before, i can feel our souls just vibrating at the very sight of us. Get lost in the endless pools of her eyes and feel the torrent of energy course between us.

Im glad i waited soo long instead of losing myself to some lowlife ho parading around. no better way than w/ someone you know deep down inside that you truely love

. I hope she ends up reading this

mariacallas · 26-01-2009, 10:11

1. I was fifteen.

2. Lost it to my first ever boyfriend, who was a year and half older than me.

3. We had been going together for six months, and have done everything *but*.

4. As I had a curfew, I had to sneak out of my house at 2 am and mess around in his benz with super dark tint.

5. I remember crying right after

Then the next day, he gave me a Pop Swatch. lollll....

Pander Bear · 26-01-2009, 10:13

adorable! we want a pic of him!

mariacallas · 26-01-2009, 10:16

Never! Contrary to popular opinion...first love *does* die (eeew) heeheehee

claire22 · 26-01-2009, 10:43

I was 13, got trashed on the smirnoff & an E pill each with my then-boyfriend. He was 17. Was bad and I didn't tell anybody, yes I started early! It was at his parents house, it hurt like a bitch! Not very enjoyable. He knew what he was doing but we were both quite munted.

mrs_mia_wallace · 26-01-2009, 10:49

7) lost my virginity at 15 to a married man (27) while my mother was in the next room... classy shit.

jam uh weezy · 26-01-2009, 11:04

in the trunk of a car on the freeway heading home from oceanside. extremely drunk. there wasn't enough room and everyone kind of forced me and this girl who were flirting all night in the trunk. i was sketching about it at first, till my friend whispered in my ear something about he's gonna end up having sex with her if i didn't get in. jealousy set it. he gave me a condom. very uncomfortable, not recommended.
of course i was fucking hooked on that chick for a looong time, but i only saw her one time after that. ahh memories.

Noodle · 26-01-2009, 13:43

I was 19 and we did it in her bed while her parents were away.

I don't recall the sex being good.

GoddessLSD-XTC · 26-01-2009, 14:11

Thx 4 the stories so far. I'll hafta look for the other versions of this Thread and provide links here. The reason I ask is because of Natalie Dylan . . . she's the 22-year-old virgin who is offered $3.7 million for her virginity. I'm pretty sure the highest bid wants to make a porno of it.

Also, gurlz & guys . . . did U/the grl like it?

How did U feel after, like U got screwed (literaly & figuratively)?

Most impostant question: Did U ever notice if U or Ur friend's personality changed after?

First time I came in a guy's mouth (when I was a guy) I was seduced, depressed, homeless. Guy in a limo offered to let me listen to music inside his car . . . I knew what he wanted to do . . . all kinds of guys wanted to do it to me but this time I gave in. Afterwards I felt like he stole my energy like a vampire and I got even with him, twice.

After my sex-change surgery, I was in a hurry to lose it but had to heal. Took me about a year to find the right guy. Everyone in the club knew I was a virgin and wanted to lose it. Finally, I was set up. . . As I was leaving the club, about to get into the car, a nice M/F couple asked me to give them a hug good-bye. While I was doing that, this handsome guy jumped into the car. I calmly asked, U want a ride home? He said yes.

When we got to his house, a real nice place . . . all he had was beer in the fridge. Minimal, but nice furniture. He had a king-sized bed. His cock was just the right size. I even bled like a real girl. As I was getting ready to leave (right after the deed was doe) I stumbled over a walkie-talkie on the floor. I asked if he was a cop. He said he was so I ran outta there almost leaving my best pair of heels behind. I didn't even give him a kiss .

Al in all, I couldn't of had a more perfect first time. After that I became a slut and mostly did it on the floor of my guest-house. (Not a slut anymore, it's a waste of time.)

I saw one of my friend's personalities change . . . I asked two 17-year-old GF's if their/their friend's personalities changed . . . they said yes.

Lysis · 26-01-2009, 14:22

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I'm pretty sure the highest bid wants to make a porno of it.

If she's really a virgin, then she's gonna bleed.

Mine was typical. Guy was 19, I had just turned 17. It was xmas and his parents weren't home. I had gone on the pill and I knew in my mind I was going to do it. We had drinks and smoked some pot and finally did it. It hurt like a mother fucker.

mariacallas · 26-01-2009, 14:47

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Originally Posted by GoddessLSD-XTC

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Also, gurlz & guys . . . did U/the grl like it?

How did U feel after, like U got screwed (literaly & figuratively)?

Most impostant question: Did U ever notice if U or Ur friend's personality changed after?

1. We were both virgins too, so everything was really a learning experience. I remember a sharp pain for a split second than it feeling really good a few seconds after penetration but was SO paranoid that I had him pull out right away before he even came! Than we did it again with a condom the second time, but it was really fast

(as to be expected...). The sex in the coming weeks definitely got better (according to him, I was insatiable, haha!)

2. I felt really different after, it's so cliche, but I felt like I had the biggest secret in the world. I was 15, in a Catholic all girls highschool, and at that point, nobody I knew even had sex yet. I was scared and thrilled and nervous and giddy at the same time. Don Henleys "End of the Innocence" juxtaposed with Xaviera Hollander's "How to Please a Man" best describe those heady days

3. As for my then boyfriend, well we went out for a year and a half and he was my first serious relationship, so everything got better over the next year before it got progressively worse during our last few months, and we split up. I remember being tremendously heartbroken, like an elephant was on my chest, and I didn't eat for weeks (something I NEVER do...) but lo and behold, I bounced back and had another relationship a couple of months after (lasted for 3 and a half years.)

EA-1475 · 26-01-2009, 17:31

As a young boy I was kidnapped by pirates during a cruise around the Caribean. Next thing I knew, i was on an auction block in Bangkok with my virginity being sold to the highest bidder.
The winner was a wealthy Japanese businessman named Hansou. I asked him very nicely to be gentle. He was not.

incident · 26-01-2009, 17:41

At some girls sweet 16 party. I was 14 at the time, outside in this girls back yard asking all these kids if they wanted to smoke some pot (I had some but no way to smoke it) and this girl grabs me and says "fuck that shit take a swig of this" and she gives me a water bottle full of gin. Anyways we end up going over by the wall that divided this girl's house with the neighbor. We were literally in the dirt/bushes, laying there taking turns taking swigs from the bottle (I wasn't really drinking it, just pretending so she would get drunk - I found out later that she was doing the same thing to me).

Anyways I had no fucking idea what i was doing. My dick was hard. I was sucking her tits and then I ate her out because I LOVE that shit, it turns me on so much. Anyways i dont think i did a good job because she pulled my head off, grabbed my cock and put it inside of her. I pumped and it felt alright... to be honest some of my masturbation with porn was more exciting better (thats all i kept thinking about) but i liked the intimacy. I came and then we ended up going to my friends car and just continue playing around in the backseat until 4am when he came and it was time to go.

Not very glamorous.. I'm definatley a porn/sex addict. But more than all that, I'm addicted to intimacy. I'm one of those fall head over heels after looking at a girl types. I've had sex thousands of times with about 25 different girls. Even people on this board would be shocked at how often I masturbate and how much stimulation i need when i do it (not freaky shit... just ALOT of porn).